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If You Wanna Be My Internet Lover

January 29th 2007 12:34
It’s not surprising that people have turned to the Internet for dating. Technology has weaseled its way into so many aspects of everyday living. We can do our banking, shopping, client liaisons, house-hunting, job applications, almost everything online. So why not take to the World Wide Web to find our soul mate?


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I don’t have anything against the whole idea, which is not to say I’m not skeptical about the concept but I actually like the idea of stripping down the superficial and connecting on a personal level with someone you’ve never met before.

Generally speaking, most people let their guard down when chatting online. I have no idea why but I will speak to people I never even said ‘hello’ to at school about the most intimate parts of my life on MSN. So using myself as the rule, doesn’t that mean that Internet relationships are more honest? Therefore, wouldn’t they have a better chance than those based on mutual lust at a party?

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I can’t speak from experience, the only person I met from interaction online wasn’t exactly to my tastes so I shied away from giving it another go but I’d like to know how it works for others.


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Who’s met someone online?

What experiences have you had (the good the bad and the ugly)?

Who’s found true love online or has a valuable life’s lesson to share?

Let’s open the floor…


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Comment by Anonymous

March 2nd 2007 01:26
Hey There,

Love ur work!

I met a guy who turned out to be a real freak. Wanted to like pay me to be his girlfriend and go to his formal and stuff. I had to change email addresses!

Thanks,
Cel

Comment by Nickoftime's Sanity Corner

April 13th 2007 01:52
Like you, I'm new to this "cyber" dating forum we've all been exposed to...I haven't been online long enough to be truly opposed to cyber dating, but I've already had my first experience and it wasn't very pleasant...long distance relationships can be brutal at best, at worst they are a dismal failure, and although you can't physically "touch" the person who has become the object of your affections, you can get alot of insight into who and what they are simply by clicking away on a keyboard...I suppose I'm just an old fashioned country boy from a small town in Iowa, where truth, honesty and respect come naturally...here on the net, however, those qualities come at a premium and at a much higher cost than you'd care to admit...like your heart...I wasn't expecting to meet anyone online...wasn't even looking, and had no intention of getting involved with anyone...I was only here to alleviate the boredom factor, to pass some "down" time and have a few laughs to ease the tension of a highly demanding, stressful job...but it did happen...not overnight of course, but over a span of several months...I was just as shocked and surprized as she was about the feelings that evolved between us...they were completely unexpected...and so, I took a leap of faith so to speak and sorta just let myself go along with it to see where it might end up...where it ended up was nowhere...nothing I thought I knew about her proved to be accurate or even close to being the truth...which, of course, didn't make for a very good first experience...It cost me more heartache and sleepless nights than you can even imagine...the question of "why?!" seemed to be the key source of all my anger, disappointment and feelings of betrayal...the words "stupid" and "naive" also sprang to mind...along with the fact that I couldn't seem to grasp or even comprehend why anyone would want to treat another human being so badly by lying about everything and anything...by playing on someones kind, forgiving, and understanding nature and soft heart...All I can say is that the experience turned me into an instant skeptic...I suppose standing in an airport terminal for seven hours, making repeated frantic phone calls to someone who is supposed to be on the plane you're waiting for, and getting a recording telling you that the cell you're calling has been disconnected isn't much of an incentive to want to try it again...especially when the round trip first class airfare was payed in full by you, and you discover that the ticket has been cashed in before the person you were waiting for even got on the plane at the other end...so I suppose, in retrospect, her vanishing act taught me a valueable lesson....people will lie about almost anything if they think you're an easy mark...I never considered myself to be one because my feet have always been firmly implanted into reality, but brains go right out the window when you fall in love, whether it's in real life or here in cyberspace...Am I willing to try again? Who knows? I doubt it, but love has a funny way of popping up when you least expect it to...

Take care,

Nick

Comment by Roger Harris

July 17th 2007 02:36
I met my mate on the Internet over four years ago. I was in another country but paid for my prospective lover to come to me where I was working.

We have been together for over four years now. It is a great experience for us. We have our ups and downs, our differences because of cultural differences, but we try to see each other's point of view. Even if we don't agree, we love each other.

It has been a great experience.

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